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Tuesday, June 8th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
Thank-you to Jess for inviting me and to the rest of the RollCall-ers for having me by the blog today!
I have been writing, and thinking, about alpha males a lot, and what makes for a ‘warrior.’ My current release, THE IRISH WARRIOR, has obvious ties to the topic. And my husband works for the MFLC program—Military and Family Life Consultant Program—which provides free, anonymous, completely confidential short-term counseling by Masters-level licensed therapists to Military Personnel and their Spouses and Families on all CONUS and OCONUS instillations.
Wow. That was a mouthful of information and syllables and acronyms. Still with me?
The heroes in the romance genre—and fiction–are often the warrior archetype. I think many people often equate ‘the warrior’ with ‘the fighter,’ and while that is often true, it misses the mark if its aimed too closely. It dilutes the totality of what makes for a warrior, in fiction and in life.
The warrior is active, not cringing at what is to come or may come, but moving forward into it. This doesn’t mean there’s no fear. It means the fear is integrated into the rest of the ‘knowing.’
The warrior is self-directed. Not that s/he does not take orders, but that she has an inner compass for what needs to be done, and takes care of that without needing someone to tell her to. This requires a focused mind and determination, and the exercise of both restraint and power, following along the trajectory of will.
The warrior has the capacity to be a master. And there is only one route to attain such a height: devotion, dedication, hard work and utter focus.
The warrior has a variety of intelligences. She can absorb information, accurately determine what’s relevant to the goal, distill that knowledge into something meaningful, and adapt in response. The true warrior is flexible—the essence of intelligence.
The warrior values life, sometimes as a direct result of having taken it, but certainly as a result of knowing he can take it. He has that power. And therefore, exercises that restraint.
Many of you are warriors. Many of you love warriors, as husband, wife, son, daughter, cousin, friend.
I call it the ‘good alpha.’ Adrenal junkies, sure. There are worse things to be. Alphas in charge, often. Real men and women with families and feelings. Above all.
Even in our books, there’s that inner world, the one that fuels the hero’s fire, for better or worse, usually a little of both. In our books, the love of the heroine is at minimum the motivation for growth. That’s true in real life too. In real life, though, there’s more than 400 pages, and sometimes the love of a good person (and insight) is not going to be enough.
Warriors use all the tools available to let them become a master.
Like the MFLC program.
It’s possible this program may be just the thing our real-life warriors needs once in a while. Again, it’s free. It’s confidential—no one ever knows you even went. It’s on US military installations in the US, Europe and Asia. It’s for military personnel and their spouses and families.
And best of all, it’s completely anonymous. You don’t even have to say your name.
You can contact the Family Support program on your base/post to find out more. The MFLC consultants also often give program brief at various meeting. And they just walk around the installation, hoping to get the word out, so keep your ears open.
They’re there for one reason: to help. They serve the warriors and their families.
Because the strongest among us cannot stay strong for the rest of us if they don’t stay strong. And it is a tripartite: mind, body, heart/spirit. So here’s to keeping our warriors true to the spirit of a warrior in our fiction, and here’s to keeping them healthy and strong in this real world.
Thank-you to all the warriors who serve our country.
Kris Kennedy writes sexy, adventure-filled medieval romances for Kensington and Pocket Books. At her website (http://kriskennedy.net) , you can sign-up for the newsletter and drop Kris a line saying Hi! THE IRISH WARRIOR, winner of the 2008 Golden Heart® Award for Best Historical Romance, released June 1. Read an excerpt here!
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Tuesday, May 11th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
Like many romance readers, I love my alpha heroes. So when British editor Trisha Telep asked me to contribute a story to her anthology, The Mammoth Book of Special Ops Romance, my first reaction was yes!
My second reaction was SEAL. After having just returned from a visit to Coronado, California, where U.S. Navy SEALs undergo their basic training, I was brimming with admiration for these amazing special ops warriors.
The next question–where to set my tale–was almost as easy. The story called for romance, action, and adventure, and so I decided it should take place on one of the world’s most beautiful beaches. Ever heard of Phi Phi Don? You might remember the exotic Thai island from the Leonardo DiCaprio movie The Beach. I had the privilege of visiting this spectacular place as a backpacker long before it (and Leo) achieved super-stardom, and it truly is one of the most romantic spots you can imagine–white beaches, turquoise waters, emerald-green islands jutting straight out of the sea. What better place to set a love story? (Or in this case, a romantic thriller in which an American woman searching for her missing brother enlists a former SEAL’s help to snatch him out of the clutches of an international terrorist ring).
If you like romance, action, or simply reading about those adrenaline-seeking warriors who populate special ops teams, I hope you’ll check out SURRENDER AT DAWN, one of the many military romances in the mammoth-size Mammoth Book of Special Ops Romance that hits bookstores today. The collection contains twenty short stories from an array of romance authors, including Marliss Melton, Debra Webb, Shannon K. Butcher, and more.
To celebrate today, I’m giving away two prizes: a signed copy of the anthology, as well as my latest romantic suspense novel, Untraceable. For a chance to win, just drop me an email at laura@lauragriffin.com and put Mammoth Book in the subject line. Good luck and happy reading!
LAURA GRIFFIN is the RITA-nominated author of seven romantic suspense novels. Her titles include Whisper of Warning, Untraceable, and Unspeakable, which comes out June 29 from Pocket Books. Visit her Web site at www.lauragriffin.com.
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Thursday, April 15th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
I didn’t know what to expect when I sent my literary baby off to be published.
Like the writerly mother I’d become in the process of penning ‘Beyond Those Hills: an Officer and a Lady’, I was afraid something terrible might happen to it, now that it no longer was hidden in the protective shell of my computer, safe from critics, mean reviewers and readers who would wonder why on God’s green earth I chose to write about something from which I’m so far removed. In the year following the release of my first novel, I’ve encountered reactions ranging from sheer skepticism, dismissal, and suspicion over the content of the book to wonder. “How can you know all this, since you’ve never served?” many have asked.
How?
Isn’t the first duty of a writer to research what she intends on writing about? Wouldn’t you extensively read on a topic about which you feel unabashedly passionate? I did, passionate as I was, and still am about the military. I’ve read my share of military fictions, non-fictions, and romance, some great, others not so much. But as satisfying as delving into the good ones was, as enthralled as I was by tales of modern-day warriors falling for women like you and I, I ended up feeling like something was missing… I had come to realize that there never was a female central character in any of the books I’ve read, at least one who could fire a gun, lead men and kick butts as well as the men do. One who would be one the guys, not one merely involved with one of them, yet remain the lady her mother raised her to be.
So I created my own alpha female, Lt. Laura P. Armitage, USN, a bright, no nonsense, half Caucasian, half Hispanic, young woman who embarks on a self-discovery journey when she volunteers for Special Operations (SEAL) support. With her confidence in her skills and her allegiance to the flag put to the test when she is thrown in a den of full-time warriors, she approaches every challenge with combat intensity and a desire to win. She’s also aware that her tenacity may never be enough to earn her the respect of her teammates and her contemptuous commanding officer, Lt. T.J. Wilkins (follow him here). Between the apparently unreciprocated love she feels for her tormented mentor, the secretive Jim Marshall, Wilkins’ unsuccessfully concealed and unreciprocated lust for her, and the tragic loss from which she’s hoping to recover, there are much private battles for Lt. Armitage to ponder.
I relish tales of damsels in distress whom handsome, tattoo-ed soldiers/sailors will rescue then love, as much as the next girl. But this is 2010 and there ought to be a designated spot in the pantheon of imaginary naval warriors for a naval warrior who happens to be a female. Don’t you worry, die-hard fans of stories involving rescued damsels! Even a tough cookie of Lt. Armitage’s caliber still needs to be rescued, and rescued she will be since two men compete for the honors. After all, hasn’t someone once said that no matter how secure, accomplished or successful we are, something in us longs to feel safe?
I concocted a dish full of the ingredients I love: romance, suspense, controversy, action and history… ‘Beyond Those Hills’, my Cold War era tribute to all females in uniform, past, present and future, was truly a labor of patience and passion.
I hope you will have as much pleasure reading it as I had writing it.
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Monday, March 29th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
I’m kind of surprised to find myself here today. I didn’t set out to write military romances, and to tell you the truth, I’m not sure I do write them. In my books, there’s darn little action of the military kind, though I try to offer plenty of the more intimate kind.
I write romance, pure and simple.
“If you didn’t want to write military romance,” you might ask, “what’s the point of writing a series starring the ultimate warriors, Navy SEALs?”
The point, dear friends, is that SEALs make great alpha heroes in a character-driven romance.
SEALs are real; my heroes are products of my imagination. It’s a distinction I never lose sight of, but anytime I need someone larger than life and yet engagingly, touchingly human, I troll through the many SEAL memoires I’ve accumulated. Though the stories they tell might be old, human nature doesn’t change. I’m reading for character—and by golly, I find it.
My mental picture Davy Graziano, the hero of SEALed with a Ring, began when I noticed how unselfconsciously aware SEALs were of other men’s attractiveness and how frankly they expressed their appreciation. I think its their competitive nature that makes them size up every man they meet, but it’s disconcerting the first time you read a description, by a clearly heterosexual man, of his admiration of another man’s butt size.
Being me, I instantly wondered, how would it feel to be a slam dunk winner in the looks contest on top of enjoying a SEAL’s über self-confidence?
Suddenly I could see Davy. Understanding full well that he has a Neapolitan masculine beauty that would have made Michelangelo reach for his chisel, Davy’s reaction is to laugh. See, Davy likes sex. Not seduction. Not the thrill of the chase. Sex. Being handsome confers no advantage at all in becoming a SEAL, but being a SEAL sends a handsome man’s ability to attract women off the charts. He gets the best of the best. Works for him.
My challenge as a writer was to show his unconscious sense of entitlement without making him look like a jerk. Because he isn’t….Well, okay, he is…a little…in the beginning. But he’s also an absolute sweetie.
That’s the other thing about SEALs. Although alpha to core, they are not stereotypical, emotionally walled-off, “make my day” Rambos. They easily admit that they have tender feelings.
And they have an extraordinary joie de vivre, an enthusiasm for all of life that fuels their never-say-die attitude.
Davy turned out to be perfect for a marriage of convenience plot I had in mind. Excerpt here.
A few days ago in these pages, Jessica Scott spoke of the difficulty of overcoming the perception that romantic suspense and military romance were synonymous. I understand. Even though I, of all people, know better, I wondered about my fitness to contribute to this blog since my books don’t fit the stereotype either. Fortunately as the TV series Army Wives has shown, there is a market for military stories that aren’t action-packed.
Now I’m thinking, this blog might be an excellent forum to discuss the subcategory: tender, of the subgenre: military romance. In your mind is military romance the same as romantic suspense except the hero is military?
Would a military romance without suspense appeal to you?
What catch phrases can Jessica and I use to let people know right up front what kind of reading experience we are offering?

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Saturday, March 13th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
I may be a writer about those amazing Navy SEALs during the day, but every Tuesday afternoon I become a Girl Scout leader. A few years ago, one of my Brownie’s father went to Iraq and we sent him Girl Scout cookies. Since then our girls have challenged themselves every year to send more cookies to our soldiers overseas. Here’s a note from a brother of one of the girls we sent cookies to, and is in Iraq right now:
“Thank you so very much to all girls in your troop! Me and my platoon buddies all enjoyed receiving the cookies that you all sent us. My favorite were the peanut butter patties. We really appreciate and are thankful for your support, there is nothing like knowing that the people back home care, especially when you don’t know all of them.”
PFC. Nathan
And you can help, too! Right now we’re taking donations to send cookies to our soldiers – we’re calling it Troops for Troops! What’s even better, it’s totally tax deducible. A box is $3.50 and a case is $42.00 – and all money is welcome!
If you’d like to donate contact kkloman@aol.com We’re hoping to make the next March 21st mailing – thank you so much in advance!
If you’d like cookies for yourself, you can easily find a troop in your area by going to: http://www.girlscoutcookies.org/
My favorite is thin mints!
Jill Monroe writes sexy Harlequins and can be found at www.jillmonroe.com
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Thursday, March 11th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
We are the new kids on the block and we have attitude but we back it up with years of inside information collected from both sides of the publishing table. Our sole purpose is to introduce books that make a statement with their unique voice, strong plot lines, and complex, well developed characters. At Accomplice Press our excellence shines through in the tiny details and this produces polished literary works.
After doing extensive research we know what the readers want and we are going to give it to them without worrying about selling millions of copies out of some mammoth warehouse. We are an independent, boutique style publisher and our focus is on the skilled authors and their target audiences, you the readers. The Partners at AP have decided to launch a series of specialty lines to answer the growing demand for something innovative and new. Curvalicious is our first endeavor and it will be a romance line spotlighting plus-size heroines but their size will not be the focus of the plot line. As publishers and women we feel that there are countless romance lovers who don’t see real life females, like themselves, portrayed in the books they read. We plan to change that with this specialty romance series.
Curvalicious women are voluptuous, beautiful, strong, sexy and intelligent. These inspirational main characters will always get the man of their dreams without losing weight or changing who they are on the outside. Romance is all about fantasy; our stories will keep the home fires burning even on the coldest night of the year. We are offering two different heat levels for our reader’s pleasure. Curvalicious Sweet is romance with sweet or sensual love scenes, but no explicit language or sex and Curvalicious Spicy is erotic romance containing explicit language and sex scenes. The stories will be available in e-book format with periodic print anthologies.
Accomplice Press is shaking up the publishing world one book at a time and you can be part of the revolution. We are holding a Curvalicious writing competition which began on Valentine’s Day and ends at midnight on May 14, 2010. We’ll be accepting stories for both Sweet and Spicy heat levels and on May 28, 2010 two winning entries will be contracted to be published in ebook format. The top three submissions of each category will also be included in the first Curvalicious print anthology. The specific guidelines for Sweet and Spicy submissions, word count and formatting requirements are all available at our website accomplicepress.com. All contest entries must be sent to curvecontest@accomplicepress.com. We are also holding an “open call” to all authors, so this is the perfect time to submit that manuscript you have written. Just remember Accomplice Press is NOT a self-publishing company.
It is an exciting time at Accomplice Press and we will be releasing more lines as the year progresses. There will be Silver Sirens, which will be romance about female characters over the age of 40, a Young Adult line called Fierce and a line dedicated to “men in Uniform”. Please check out accomplicepress.com for more information. Also we will be attending Romconinc.com in Denver this July, please look for us there.
Good luck authors!
Karen Jones
Public Relations Manager for Accomplice Press
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Thursday, February 25th, 2010 by GuestAuthor

Well, because they just are! I mean, men, who have that kind of drive & focus, that want to fight for their country for their families & others, is such an unselfish act that there is no other word that describes them --- it is heroism at its grandest!
Ok, here is where I have to tell you - - - I'm NOT a writer, not aspiring to be one, never wanted to be one - - - I'm a reader & bookseller. The reason I am clarifying this now is so when you read this post you'll have expectations for the writing of an un-published writer - - - now you'll know what to expect & won't be disappointed
So, back to my Military men . . . many authors have chosen to write this sub-genre in romance & I salute them for doing so & for doing it so well. Romance authors portray these men as the heroes they are: Robyn Carr in Virgin River - & what about Paradise Valley when Rick returns home from war?
Stephanie Tyler is rockin the romance world with her new series beginning with Hard To Hold, Navy Seals at their finest!

Suzzane Brockmann was one of the authors that really set the stage for me: Unsung Hero with Tom Paoletti; Ken Karmody in Out of Control ; & my favorite with Lt Tom Starrett in Gone Too Far. Suz's Troubleshooters have all found a spot in our hearts.

Military romances introduce us to a world we don't even know - - - giving us a glimpse of impossible military situations & an authors point of view of how to get them out of it - - - & makes us think, and maybe even put ourselves into those situations wondering how the heck to get out of it!
When Military heroes come home from war, there is nothing better. Julia London's, Summer of Two Wishes, was an emotional tear-jerker that delivered all a good romance should. As an escaped POW, Finn comes back from duty to find his wife has remarried during his long absence - - - Julia tells us both sides of the story . . . how Finn decides to get his wife back & how Macy really wants to come back to her first love but is torn by the love of her current husband . . . sigh. . . . this is why we read & love romance!
I also find reading about the Military, especially now, as kind of a tribute to our soldiers, and/or the Military unto itself. I am in awe of those men & women who will put their lives on the line for their country - - - even when at times, I feel like we (collective we) don't show the appreication they deserve. It makes me more aware of these great men & women so when I see them at the airport on leave, I'll walk up to them shake their hand, smile & say thank you & God Bless.
Bottom line, putting all that aside, as important as these occupations are & how revered they should be to all American citizens . . . our authors do a darn good job of writing these stories, creating the sexiest of heroes making these books the most fun to read! Thanks ladies!!
So, tell us, why do you read Military romances? Who are some of your favorites?
Thanks for having me blog today & please stop by Borders True Romance Blog, www.bordersblog.com/trueromance and romancerollcall.com & comment today --- you may be chosen for a free book!
Happy Romance
Sue G - Borders True Romance Host - Borders Romance Buyer, reads romance. For her JOB. No, really. You can email Sue at sgrimshaw at bordersgroupinc dot com.
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Friday, February 5th, 2010 by GuestAuthor
When my “Johnny” comes marching home, he’ll have me to come home to, for better or worse. Each deployment has been greater than six months and this is our fifth. As if that weren’t enough, there have been separations for annual training, schools, TDY, and ill-fated PCS timing. How many days, exactly: I know I’m not alone when I say, “I can’t count that high” or “I’ve stopped counting.” But each time we rolled out the red carpet upon his return.
We’ll give him a hearty welcome then, Hurrah! Hurrah!
The men will cheer, the boys will shout
The ladies they will all turn out
That joyful day when Johnny comes marching home
Twill be so good to have ‘em home
They’ve been so far and gone so long
What a joyful day when Johnny comes marching home
“So far and gone so long”: Yes, the other side of the country and for days, into months, and years. Our HEA (happy ever after) is stuff dreams are made of, books and songs and poems are written about. It’s been a true military romance that adds a chapter with each passionate good-bye and returning embrace. But it’s one story, one military couple, and one tough, gritty lifestyle that has been paid for with tears, sweat, and bended knee again and again, and sooner or later, again. Furthermore, it’s only one way to write the story.
I’ve been around enough to know that’s only half the stories. In fact, more personally, that only accounts for half my husband’s romancing or his story as it were. Rumor has it that he was a recipient of a “Dear John” letter that broke his heart during his very first time away from home. An Army girlfriend turned and did a “Savannah” on him. In years since, we’ve witnessed girlfriends and wives fall by the wayside for other soldiers. DH has signed leave paperwork knowing full well the turmoil a soldier was going to have to endure on his R&R. Some fellows of his have gotten more than “Dear John” letters on deployment; they’ve gotten divorce papers. That’s the cold, hard, ugly truth. It happens.
Knowing this, it was with intent (on seeing the motivation behind the letter writers) that I picked up Nicholas Sparks’ Dear John in paperback a few months ago. For me, I viewed it as a case study. I’m not a natural fiction reader. (And I’ve only recently learned of military romance as a category). I prefer non-fiction, but the military scenario hooked me and with the reality of “Dear John”s being on my heart, I cracked the cover. The story of John and Savannah did not disappoint me. (I had no basis or expectation for HEA.) I was swept away, enthralled, heart-broken, and floored.
It read like Real Life. In this case: Ugly and Cold but Untrue. (I double checked: 1. Soldiers—Fiction. 2. Long-distance relationships—Fiction.) I won’t go into specifics. I fear I’ve spoiled it already for those who haven’t read it, but not any more than the given title I hope. My experiences lent themselves to seeing how Savannah and John couldn’t make it work and even understanding it. It did not anger me as it did one Amazon reviewer who felt they wasted their time. It saddened me to know that this fiction book played out a non-fictitious theme still being played out centuries after the first “Dear John” letter.
Not all the ladies turn out. A salute isn’t always rendered for a job well done. Some take themselves out of the mix for a myriad of reasons. The sacrifice of time and youth is too much. It doesn’t make them all wrong. Some “Savannah”s go on to other good causes and grow up and “show up” for different relationships, ones that are in a whole other romance category. That is the lesson that I came away with.
A friend that I lent the book to had her own take. She, being the lover and wife of an airman, was angry. She’s also a hopeless (sorry) romantic who’s betting Hollywood will save the day and John and Savannah will make this a true military romance and not just another bad news story, a casualty of 9/11. I pray not. Life is messy. Military life is messier. And I’d be lying if I didn’t end by saying that once or twice I’ve contemplated a more simple life, one of a teacher or a grocer’s wife. As a couple, we’ve even fantasized about a “Dear Army, We’re moving to Canada” life.
So, while I didn’t expect it to be a controversial book when I shared it with my friend and others, upon further thought, it makes sense. Dear John is a controversial fiction book whose story hits real close to the non-fiction dealings of a controversial life. I have no want, basis or expectation for the movie to be any different.
Star Henderson is a National Guard Army wife. Her journey with the military began writing daily letters to a friend at Basic Training in 1990. She joined the Army in 1993, and later married that “friend” in 1995. Her husband is David, and they have two children: Thomas and Tara. Their family is part of the 48th Infantry Brigade of the Georgia National Guard. Star is co-founder of ArmyWifeNetwork.com, which is now parent to their ever popular weekly call-in live radio show Army Wife Talk Radio and their q&a column for the military, Field Problems™. Committed to sharing their stories, knowledge, and providing real answers, co-founders Tara and Star work hard to identify and solve the issues of today’s military families. Real-life stories can be found on their Loving A Soldier blog that is home to more than 20 military spouses, girlfriends and family members.
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